
What Neurodiversity-Affirming Books Do We Use and Recommend?
Neurodiversity-Affirming Books for Teenagers
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Being Ace – Edited by Madeline Dyer
An anthology of short stories by and about asexual teens, many of whom are also neurodivergent, disabled, or queer. -
The Autistic Trans Guide to Life – Yenn Purkis & Wenn Lawson
An empowering and practical guide for autistic trans teens, covering identity, self-advocacy, and wellbeing. -
Queerly Autistic – Erin Ekins
A compassionate guide for LGBTQIA+ teens on the autism spectrum, filled with affirming advice and real-life insights. -
The Awesome Autistic Go-To Guide – Yenn Purkis & Tanya Masterman
A straightforward and friendly guide for autistic tweens and teens, co-written by an autistic adult. -
Me and My PDA – Glòria Durà-Vilà & Tamar Levi
A helpful introduction to Pathological Demand Avoidance for young people, written in an affirming and accessible tone. -
The Spectrum Girl’s Survival Guide – Siena Castellon
Written by an autistic teen, this book supports girls navigating adolescence and Autism. -
Wonderfully Wired Brains – Louise Gooding
Celebrates neurodivergent brains by explaining how they work and how differences can be strengths. -
The Autism-Friendly Guide to Periods – Robyn Steward
Offers clear, accessible information about menstruation for autistic teens. -
The Brain Building Book – Dr. Liz Angoff
A strengths-based workbook that supports tweens and teens in understanding their unique brains. -
A Different Sort of Normal – Abigail Balfe
A graphic memoir that details Abigail’s late autism diagnosis and self-discovery journey. -
Can You See Me? – Libby Scott & Rebecca Westcott
A novel about masking and school life, based on the real experiences of co-author Libby Scott, an autistic girl of colour. -
The Amazingly Disorganised Help Dictionary – Georgia Productions
A humorous and relatable guide for teens who feel like their brains don’t work in conventional ways.
Neurodiversity-Affirming Picture Books
🧠 Neurodivergent Identity & Self-Acceptance
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Some Brains – Nelly Thomas
A fun, inclusive Aussie picture book celebrating the differences in how brains work. -
Just Right for You – Melanie Heyworth
Helps children understand and appreciate their unique neurodivergent traits with warmth and clarity. -
The Superhero Brain – Christel Land
Encourages kids to view their neurodivergence as a superpower. -
Square Me, Round World – Chelsea Luker
A story about a child who sees the world differently and learns to feel pride in that difference. -
The Rainbow Brain – Sandhya Menon & Kushla Ross
Celebrates the co-occurrence of autism and ADHD, highlighting intersectional neurodivergence. -
The Brain Forest – Sandhya Menon
Uses nature imagery to explore different types of brains and how each one contributes to the world. -
That’s Not My Brain – Sara Gibbs
A quirky, ADHD-affirming picture book that helps kids embrace their unique ways of thinking. -
My Busy, Busy Brain – Nicole Russell
A child-friendly explanation of ADHD and learning to love your brain. -
Hi, It’s Me! I Have ADHD – Katelyn Mabry
Helps kids with ADHD understand themselves and feel empowered. -
My Brain is a Race car – Nikki Saunders
Uses a race car metaphor to make ADHD traits fun and positive. -
Frankie and the Fossil – Jess McGeachin
Celebrates kids who are curious, passionate, and love things deeply — a nod to neurodivergent strengths. -
All the Ways to be Smart – Davina Bell & Allison Colpoys
Celebrates diverse kinds of intelligence, from creative to emotional, with neurodivergent-friendly language. -
It’s Me, Henry! – Stephanie Sorkin
Follows an autistic boy navigating daily life, sensory experiences, and empathy. -
A Friend for Henry – Jenn Bailey & Mika Song
Follows an autistic boy navigating friendship in a sometimes confusing world. -
All My Stripes – Shaina Rudolph & Danielle Royer
An autistic zebra learns his stripes are what make him special. -
My Brother Otto – Meg Raby
A supportive sibling’s perspective of a non-speaking autistic boy. -
Lulu Is A Rhinoceros – Jason Flom, Allison Flom & Sophie Corrigan
A metaphorical story about identity, self-perception, and acceptance.
🌊 Sensory & Emotional Regulation
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Wiggles, Stomps and Squeezes Calm My Jitters Down – Lindsay Rowe Parker
A sensory-affirming book that helps children understand self-regulation tools. -
This Beach is Loud! – Samantha Cotterill
A sensory-sensitive boy learns to manage his environment during a trip to the beach. -
When My Brain is Messy – Tania Wieclaw
Addresses executive function challenges and messy thoughts. -
My Wandering Dreaming Mind – Merriam Sarcia Saunders & Tammie Lyon
Normalises attention differences and encourages mindfulness. -
I Am Calm – Jayneen Sanders
Offers calming strategies and emotional regulation tips. -
Sometimes I’m Sad – Jayneen Sanders
Normalises and validates experiences of sadness and depression in young children. -
Taco Falls Apart – Brie Spangler & Mercy Hanson
A taco character experiences anxiety and sensory overwhelm in a gentle, humorous way. -
Listening to My Body – Gabi Garcia
Teaches interoceptive awareness and emotional literacy. -
How Does Your Body Feel? – Claire Joyce
Helps children name and interpret internal sensory experiences. -
A Case of the Zaps – Alex Boniello & April Lavalle
A robot learns to navigate anxiety and intrusive thoughts. -
What To Do When Your Brain Gets Stuck – Dawn Huebner
An interactive workbook that introduces kids to OCD and strategies to manage it. -
How Big Are Your Worries, Little Bear? – Jayneen Sanders
An Aussie book that gently teaches anxiety tools to young children. -
Ruby Finds a Worry – Tom Percival
A charming story about managing and discussing anxiety.
♿ Disability & Inclusion
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Come Over to My House – Eliza Hull & Sally Rippin
Explores the lives of children with disabilities in inclusive, everyday settings. -
You’re So Amazing! – James Catchpole & Karen George
Breaks down ableist stereotypes and “inspiration porn” narratives. -
What Happened to You? – James Catchpole
A disability-affirming story about curiosity and consent around difference. -
We Move Together – Kelly Fritsch, Anne McGuire & Eduardo Trejos
A vibrant celebration of disability justice, activism, and community. -
Macy’s World – Lori DeMonia
Told from a sibling’s point of view about her disabled sister’s daily experiences. -
Rescue and Jessica – Jessica Kensky & Patrick Downes
Based on a real story about a girl with an acquired disability and her service dog. -
A Friend Like Simon – Kate Gaynor
A story about learning from and accepting autistic classmates. -
I Am Not a Label – Cerrie Burnell
An illustrated biography collection celebrating disabled people throughout history. -
Benji, the Bad Day, and Me – Sally J. Pla & Ken Min
An empathetic story about an autistic child and his sibling on a tough day.
🏳️🌈 LGBTQIA+ & BIPOC-Inclusive Picture Books
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My Shadow is Pink – Scott Stuart
An affirming story about gender expression and being true to yourself. -
My Shadow is Purple – Scott Stuart
Explores non-binary identities and living beyond the binary. -
The Spectacular Suit – Kat Patrick & Hayley Wells
A celebration of gender expression and joy in self-identity. -
Who’s Your Real Mum? – Bernadette Green & Anna Zobel
A playful response to intrusive questions about same-sex parents. -
Love Makes a Family – Sophie Beer
A colourful board book showcasing diverse families, including queer and multigenerational households. -
Julian is a Mermaid – Jessica Love
A gentle story about gender creativity and acceptance. -
When Aidan Became a Brother – Kyle Lukoff
A trans boy prepares for the arrival of a sibling in a heartfelt story about identity and family. -
It Feels Good to Be Yourself – Theresa Thorn
An accessible and inclusive guide to gender identity for young children. -
Pink is for Boys – Robb Pearlman
Breaks down gender stereotypes using bright, inclusive illustrations. -
The Family Book – Todd Parr
An inclusive celebration of all kinds of families. -
And Tango Makes Three – Justin Richardson & Peter Parnell
Based on the true story of two male penguins raising a chick. -
Heather Has Two Mommies – Lesléa Newman
A classic story that affirms two-mum families. -
They She He Me: Free to Be! – Maya & Matthew Gonzalez
A joyful, colourful celebration of pronouns and gender expression. -
Yes! We Are Latinos – Alma Flor Ada & F. Isabel Campoy
Short stories from Latinx children, some of whom have disabilities or other intersectional identities.
If there are any books to add to this list, please do not hesitate to reach out to our team.
Last edited on the 29/04/2025